Bread and love,which first?

A man tell me what,he hope I find a regular work,so if he resign,he will seek another job in my area.
I do not know how reply . We are not lovers. So ,I think I can not do many things. To apply for a job is more hard than in the past. Less job post,more graduate students. NYT saids this economic station will bad till November,job wanted will good from next year. Recently months will very hard. I think I need a job feed myself, it is first. But I am very need seek a lover, it if more important than my job wanted. I do not know how to do it, bread and love,how to balance.